Conflict is something we often think of as negative. It brings to mind arguing and anger. In reality, conflict is a normal part of life. It occurs when there are different points of view and different opinions on how things should be done. It's impossible to go through life without experiencing conflict. The important thing is how we handle and resolve our differences. Here are some tips to end the war. Be aware of your emotions. In any situation, the point where we stop being logical about resolving conflict is when our emotions become engaged. If you're feeling angry, frustrated or afraid, take a Parent Time Out. If you choose to take a few moments to catch your breath or regain your composure (冷静), it does not mean your child "wins." It simply means you are choosing to de-escalate a situation that is becoming emotionally charged. Think of it as resolving, not winning. Fights are "won." Conflict is "resolved." Resolving conflict doesn't necessarily mean you will be "right" or "wrong." It may mean agreeing to disagree, depending on the issue. Also, help your child recognize that resolving conflict doesn't mean he or she will get what they want. It might mean understanding that sometimes rules are rules and that's just the way it is. What does the author think of conflict? A. It happens more often at home.B. It is wrong and negative.C. It can actually be avoided.D. It is rather normal in our life.
Conflict is something we often think of as negative. It brings to mind arguing and anger. In reality, conflict is a normal part of life. It occurs when there are different points of view and different opinions on how things should be done. It's impossible to go through life without experiencing conflict. The important thing is how we handle and resolve our differences.
Here are some tips to end the war. Be aware of your emotions. In any situation, the point where we stop being logical about resolving conflict is when our emotions become engaged. If you're feeling angry, frustrated or afraid, take a Parent Time Out. If you choose to take a few moments to catch your breath or regain your composure (冷静), it does not mean your child "wins." It simply means you are choosing to de-escalate a situation that is becoming emotionally charged.
Think of it as resolving, not winning. Fights are "won." Conflict is "resolved." Resolving conflict doesn't necessarily mean you will be "right" or "wrong." It may mean agreeing to disagree, depending on the issue. Also, help your child recognize that resolving conflict doesn't mean he or she will get what they want. It might mean understanding that sometimes rules are rules and that's just the way it is.
What does the author think of conflict?
- A. It happens more often at home.
- B. It is wrong and negative.
- C. It can actually be avoided.
- D. It is rather normal in our life.
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本题考查对文章中作者观点的理解。解题思路是仔细阅读文章，提取作者关于冲突的描述和观点，然后将各选项与原文观点进行对比分析。
- 首先，文章第一句“Conflict is something we often think of as negative. It brings to mind arguing and anger. In reality, conflict is a normal part of life.”表明，虽然人们通常认为冲突是负面的，但实际上冲突是生活的正常组成部分。
- 接着看选项A：“It happens more often at home.”，文章中并没有提及冲突在家中发生的频率，所以该选项不符合原文内容。
- 选项B：“It is wrong and negative.”，原文明确指出冲突是生活的正常部分，并非是错误和负面的，该选项与原文观点相悖。
- 选项C：“It can actually be avoided.”，文中提到“It's impossible to go through life without experiencing conflict.”，说明冲突是不可避免的，该选项与原文不符。
- 选项D：“It is rather normal in our life.”，与原文中“conflict is a normal part of life”表述一致，准确反映了作者的观点。